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Bridget's avatar

This weekend I cut down a very large thistle that had grown behind a hedge. I left the roots there because a branch lopper can cut through a thistle stem but cannot uproot it. In the neighbor's yard they recently had a tree removed and then the stump as well... that tree will not be coming back.

Henry's initial attempt to live a virtuous life, if he stuck to it, would eventually result in the same thing as our attempts to lead a virtuous life: we have cut down a tree, or a large thistle, or pulled off the leaves of a dandelion, but the roots of disorder (a character's particular flaws and long ingrained habits of mind) are still there and the same thing will start sprouting from them, to be cut down again in smaller form if a person is watching for it. This is something he would have to confront. It's not impossible (all things are possible with the right help, which was apparent with the neighbor's tree) but it would be a lot more work for a lot longer than he anticipated (or if it was condensed in time frame, it would be a lot more intensely painful, as when someone "hits bottom" and then reverses direction completely and with finality). But also the reward in the end would be greater than what he had initially desired.

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Phoebe Farag Mikhail's avatar

I don't think it's enough to "reform" out of love or attraction for someone when there is no other foundation. Henry is certainly CAPABLE of reform, but I'm not sure a marriage to Fanny is enough. He hasn't left his superficial friends nor cultivated friendships that would help him, nor has he pursued better habits or started going to church or something. And Haley you rightly point out that he even has some mixed motivations for proposing to Fanny.

As for whether she should take the proposal, Fanny could not even stop Edmund from joining the play, so I imagine she knows the limits of her own influence on other people's morality. We know she won't and I know she shouldn't. It would be more torture for her to live a life inconsistent with her moral character than to live it serving the old ladies.

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